Ashley N. Emmerich Koehler

Ashley N. Emmerich Koehler, 37, of Lebanon, passed away on March 17, 2025, in St. Clair County, Illinois. She was born on January 19, 1988, in Breese, Illinois, the daughter of Paul Emmerich and Kimberly Sonsoucie. She lived a life marked by devotion, selflessness, and a deep commitment to her family and work.

Ashley was known for her unwavering dedication to her children, Natalie, Alexis, Jace, Jacob, and Gracie, who were the cornerstones of her life as well as her step-son, Benjamin. As a devoted wife, she shared her life with her husband, Jeffrey Koehler who she married January 27, 2025 in Belleville. She created a nurturing home where laughter and joy were abundant, often seen going on walks or taking her children to the park, enjoying the simple yet profound moments of motherhood.

Professionally, Ashley served as a Direct Support Professional at Clinton Manor in New Baden, where her compassion and commitment touched the lives of those she cared for. Her selfless nature shone through both in her occupational role and in her personal life, embodying the spirit of dedication in every aspect.

Ashley is survived by her father and step-mother, Paul and Tyanna Emmerich of Collinsville; her mother and step-father, Kim and Steven Burtis of Beckemeyer; her siblings, Amber of St. Jacob, Amanda of New Baden, Paul Jr., Paige of Columbia, IL, and Brett; her children's father, Jason Tomlin; and her maternal grandmother, Sharon Sonsoucie, as well as her great-grandmother, Ida Hendy. She leaves behind a legacy of love and strength that will endure in the hearts of her family and friends.

She is preceded in death by her young son, Jacob Emmerich-Tomlin, whose memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who loved him. Additionally, she lost her grandparents, Robert Sonsoucie, Debbie and Joe Emmerich, as well as her uncle, Brian Sonsoucie, and cousin, Blake Rodgers. She also grieves the loss of her nieces, Rylynn and Rheya, who brought her so much joy.

Visitation will be held at Nordike Funeral Home in New Baden on Monday, March 24, 2025, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM, and again on Tuesday, March 25, 2025, from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM, followed by a funeral service at 11:00 AM. Burial will follow at Greenmount Cemetery in New Baden.

Ashley’s impact on her family, friends, and community will be remembered fondly, and her spirit will live on through the many lives she touched with her kindness and love.

Memorials may be made in memory of Ashley to her family, checks payable to Amanda Emmerich.